Where to Buy Toys

Too Many Options

In previous millennia, sex toys were few and far between: folks often had to go to sketchy shops that stocked unsafe materials and promoted conventional gender roles. Although some stores like that still exist, a lot of retailers still in business are run by really wonderful, sex-positive folk. Perhaps more revolutionary is the widespread expansion of online stores. Many shops that previously existed as brick and mortar stores now sell their goods online and ship worldwide. Here, I want to help you find a sex toy store that will suit your needs and steer you away from the bad ones.

Stores & Brands to Avoid

Here is a non-exhaustive list of stores and brands that sell unsafe products or whose ethics I find egregious:

- Amazon

- Adam & Eve

My Recommendations

Other Blogs I Love

Check out the stores above to buy toys!

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I'm A. (she/they), a clueless queer and blogger. I started this blog because I grew up in a small town where sex--especially queer sex--wasn't talked about. I was a determined youngster and managed to scrape the bottom of the internet barrel to find the information I needed (and later, the information I wanted). Now that I've learned a bit about queer pleasure in all of its forms, I wanted to create the resource I wish I'd had; a place where I could read about someone else's experiences and learn about sex from a pleasure-centered perspective. If you have a question about something or want me to cover a certain topic, just shoot me an email! Chances are, I've been there and would love to help or at least offer some moral support, and who knows, maybe others could benefit from a post about it. 


Stay safe, be gay, and abolish the police, 





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