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Oxballs Honcho Plug Review, Courtesy of The Vibed

Have you ever sat in your room, bored with your sex toys? Do you feel like your g-spot vibrators and massage wands are getting a touch bland for your liking? Do your dildos just not pack quite the punch they used to? Have no fear, the Oxballs Honcho Plug is here.

With this plug, Oxballs sought out to make something unique and unseen elsewhere and they certainly succeeded. This absolute mammoth of an anal (or vaginal) plug with a shape that’s between a biological penis and a large fist is not for those new to penetration or anyone looking for “low effort” or “easy” or "beginner-friendly" sex toys. Those are great for other uses and can be found elsewhere on this blog (search up vibrators or dildos). The Honcho plug is for people who crave serious size, specifically girth in a squishy package, and comes in both plain black and bright rainbow color options. Without further ado, let’s get into the details.


  • 5 inches long

  • 4.5 inches insertable length

  • 2.23 inches max diameter

  • Squishy, platinum-cured silicone

  • Rainbow color and penis/fist shape (I’ll explain this later)

  • Comes in additional sizes (they are LARGER: this is the SMALLEST option)

  • $59.50 at The Vibed with code QUEER15

Proceed With Caution:

Now, I am not someone often spooked by sex toys. But this one is truly a bit shocking the first time you see it in real life. I had looked at the exact dimensions of the Honcho plug before requesting it for review so I knew I was awaiting a rather adventurous package. I was still unprepared for the shock factor provided by the sheer girth of this toy. It is also the first toy I have ever received that I ended up being physically incapable of testing myself. That being said, I'll do my best to provide some helpful information that can lead buyers in the right direction.

I want everyone looking into buying the Oxballs Honcho Plug (either in size 2 like I have or the heroically larger size 3) to look at the above measurements. They are big. And not in a "larger side of natural" big, but in a fantasy type of big in terms of the girth. If your only penetration experience (either vaginal of anal: this plug can be used in either hole) is with biological penises, I highly recommend you try some smaller plugs like the Uberrime Sense Vaginal Plug of the Oxballs Ergo Plug (good vaginally or anally) in a modest size. These plugs feature similar shapes and squishy soft silicone in more reasonable sizes.

On the other hand, if you have experience with fisting or fantasy-sized toys, this might be an excellent plug for you. Pictured below is the Honcho in size 2 next to my fists which are probably on the larger size of women' hands and smaller side of men's hands. It appears clownishly girth next to most ordinary plugs.

A Truly Curious Shape

For those of you accustomed to this size of plug, the details the set the Honcho apart from other big plugs matter. The Honcho is simply shaped like a fist with a penis head. The end of the plug has a urethra and a fairly pronounced coronal ridge. Moving down the body of the toy, the shaft of the penis so-as-to-speak is much smoother and less detailed, like a mass of shiny, meaty silicone. The toy tapers down to a slimmer neck that should still provide some stretch towards the opening of the vagina or anus. Finally, the plug finishes with a bit of a chunkier t-bar style base. Looking at the base, I get a little anxious about anal use which is interesting since the Honcho is marketed as an anal plug. That being said, I am not a size queen anally so I'll leave it up to those of you who are to keep track of your own health when using big toys: just exercise caution, stretch your way up using smaller toys ascending in sizes, and make sure to stay aware of what's going on with your body and how you're doing.

Who Is This For?

Since this product is not for the average sex toy user, I want to list out some people who the Oxballs Honcho Plug is not for.

NOT for...

- anyone new to penetration

- anyone who wants a long toy

- anyone who likes hard toys

- anyone who likes discretion

- anyone who doesn't like lots of girth

This toy is, fairly specifically, for advanced toy users with penetrative stretching experience. This is a great stretching plug for those ready for it. I really don't recommend it to others as it is not safe.

Bottom Line:

The Oxballs Honcho Plug in Size 2 is a really thoughtful and beautiful stretching plug for those seeking out an intensely girth penetrative experience. Click here to check it out and click here to check out smaller toys!

The Oxballs Honcho Plug in Size 2 was sent to me by the wonderful people at The Vibed in exchange for my honest review. As per usual, all my opinions and statements are 100% my own. If you’d like to send me a product for review, go to the Work With Me page to get in touch.

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I'm A. (she/they), a clueless queer and blogger. I started this blog because I grew up in a small town where sex--especially queer sex--wasn't talked about. I was a determined youngster and managed to scrape the bottom of the internet barrel to find the information I needed (and later, the information I wanted). Now that I've learned a bit about queer pleasure in all of its forms, I wanted to create the resource I wish I'd had; a place where I could read about someone else's experiences and learn about sex from a pleasure-centered perspective. If you have a question about something or want me to cover a certain topic, just shoot me an email! Chances are, I've been there and would love to help or at least offer some moral support, and who knows, maybe others could benefit from a post about it. 


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