• Queer Pleasure

My Toy Wishlist

Updated: Sep 29, 2020

As I have said in previous posts, I am a college student on a budget. Similar to most folx, I have a list of dream toys I would have in my collection that I simply cannot afford right now. The point of this post is not to lament what I do not own, but rather to look forward to all of the wonderful pleasure toys in the world I have yet to experience. In fact, feel free to leave a comment, DM me on Instagram, or shoot me an email: I'd love to hear what your dream toys are. Without further ado, here is my ultimate wishlist. If you happen to have an interest in sending me any toys to review, shoot me an email.

More Butt Plugs:

This may come as a surprise, but butt plugs are some of my favorite toys. I only own a couple of inexpensive, hard silicone plugs. This is not to say there is anything wrong with those plugs, just that I think it would be great fun to venture out knowing how fun the basic ones I own have been. Weighted plugs, like the Snug Plugs from b-vibe have caught my eye in addition to the squishy silicone in any SquarePegToys plugs and the smooth, weighted stainless steel in the Njoy pure plug. Last, vibrating plugs look to. die. for. I feel like that doesn't need a whole lot of explanation.

Rumbly Vibes:

Currently, I do not own any truly rumbly vibrators. The closest is probably the BMS Factory Wonderlust Serenity, which has a little rumble to it and while the https Nu Sensuelle Joie is super strong, the vibrations feel pretty buzzy (at least to me). I would love to try out a toy like a WeVibe Wand, Magic Wand, or Doxy wand to really groove out with some rumbly vibes.

G-spot Toys:

The aforementioned BMS vibe I own is, for my own uses, a little too flexible in the neck to be good for g-spot stimulation (though some prefer that). I'd love to try out something with a stiffer neck or more dramatic curve to really lay down the pressure. Vibrations could be great addition, but I'm open to any g-spot toys.


Due to some level of pain I had previously experienced with penetration, the dildos I own are slim and tapered. This was great for a while, but I've been playing for a minute and grown more comfortable with my own body and would love to try out different dildos. Give me big, small, thick, squishy, heavy, vibrating: I'm open to it all!

At the end of the day, I have found a lot of joy and pleasure in trying out different sex toys and taking the time to explore my own interests and body. I hope y'all do the same and have a lovely day.

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I'm A. (she/they), a clueless queer and blogger. I started this blog because I grew up in a small town where sex--especially queer sex--wasn't talked about. I was a determined youngster and managed to scrape the bottom of the internet barrel to find the information I needed (and later, the information I wanted). Now that I've learned a bit about queer pleasure in all of its forms, I wanted to create the resource I wish I'd had; a place where I could read about someone else's experiences and learn about sex from a pleasure-centered perspective. If you have a question about something or want me to cover a certain topic, just shoot me an email! Chances are, I've been there and would love to help or at least offer some moral support, and who knows, maybe others could benefit from a post about it. 


Stay safe, be gay, and abolish the police, 





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